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Post by riya26 on Jul 21, 2006 3:33:18 GMT -5
Hiiii friends,
I want u people 2 discuss the position of women in our community.
why people in our community are not aware about female education?
why most of the people want their daughters to study (hardly upto graduation) and get married?
why there is parda system for women?
I want u all to discuss the above questions.
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Post by narendra08jul on Jul 24, 2006 14:10:00 GMT -5
dear riya ,
u put a very good topic to debate..
ya u r right n i m 100% agree with u ,,these are the things which are to be really improve in our society..
on the name of our culture we can't see more ...
its true n shameless tht being a gr8 gurjars (only for taking wah-wah) ,still we r very poor in education compare to others,,not only gal..same position is with boys also..still very few peoples are in good position in our society..
infact pardha sys which became old now..due to just in name of culture we are just taking it..
any way lets see ,how people reacts on this issue..
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Post by riya26 on Jul 25, 2006 3:34:02 GMT -5
Hello.................................................
where r all the girl members of this forum?
Your views please.
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Post by Hamza Malik on Jul 25, 2006 3:54:22 GMT -5
hello Riya , Good topic to discuss:) There must be different views among Hindu and Muslim Gujjars
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Post by hamza malik on Jul 25, 2006 4:02:15 GMT -5
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Post by kuldeepadhana on Jul 27, 2006 5:06:04 GMT -5
sister riya .dont be dissapointed. i am withyou.and i promise to write my views in your thread
sister jahan tak gurjar community mein women ki position ki baat hai. city aur village ki alag-2 nazaria hain
village mein 10th padh liye to bahot padh liye
lekin seher ke gujaro mein badlav aaya hai
for your kind information.my cousin priyanka adhan is working with google in gurgaun
he is a computer engineer. and done mcse and networking.from niit
your brother
kuldeep adhana
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Post by riya26 on Jul 27, 2006 6:00:16 GMT -5
all right Brother, if ur sis. is working, then I would say she is very lucky, b'coz my friends (they r 3 sisters) born in Delhi (not in villege) who r highly qualified r not allowed 2 work. their parents fear that a well established and good family can never accept working girls.
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Post by sunita on Aug 1, 2006 22:30:00 GMT -5
Hey Riya,
As far as I know our community has started giving equal importance to female education. I believe there is no gender bias. Taking a job after studies is upto a family to decide. The case you pointed out might be a particular case. This often happens in other communities too.
Regards,
Sunita
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Post by Rajesh Jindher on Aug 17, 2006 5:38:12 GMT -5
Dear All gurjars
I can't say about parda pratha becoz it is crucial matter so I cant say any think about it but I am in favour of girls education and we should give our girls liberty to go any field of education whom they want to go. We should give education to girls as boys.
regards
Rajesh Choudhary
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Post by simmi on Aug 18, 2006 21:51:42 GMT -5
hi rajesh,
i m a well educated girl from modern family.but i want to let u know if we r still in backward list that just bz of dowery, parda,and illiteracy.in parda we r just like slaves or pets.its is not a thing of proud but shame.see the jat bros the are just open minded even in villages.we have everything but in parda we cant express our views.do you know if we r in parda it means we dont have equel rights in that family.so its not for you but for whole gujjar community guys should say no to parda nd dowery.an educated girl is hundred times better than other things.bz she can get the things which she needs really.sorry guys if i say anything wrong about our parda community.but i m sure most of the gals of this community must be agree with me.
hare krishna
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Post by abhati on Aug 21, 2006 3:30:50 GMT -5
hi rajesh, i m a well educated girl from modern family.but i want to let u know if we r still in backward list that just bz of dowery, parda,and illiteracy.in parda we r just like slaves or pets.its is not a thing of proud but shame.see the jat bros the are just open minded even in villages.we have everything but in parda we cant express our views.do you know if we r in parda it means we dont have equel rights in that family.so its not for you but for whole gujjar community guys should say no to parda nd dowery.an educated girl is hundred times better than other things.bz she can get the things which she needs really.sorry guys if i say anything wrong about our parda community.but i m sure most of the gals of this community must be agree with me. hare krishna hi simmi, i totally agree with you, we should do smthng to get rid of this parda system. and boyz should take their step fwd, coz without their help it's not possible. so, all u boyz out there, plz come forward n raise ur voice Anju Bhati |
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Post by ponam on Aug 21, 2006 8:13:11 GMT -5
hi boys r u sleeping.or stay with parda system.all gurjars are bussy like gujjar community for nothing.i hate this system+dowery seekers.
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Post by gauravbhati on Aug 21, 2006 9:25:01 GMT -5
hmmmmm!
i dont thing parda is that big a problem these days .atleast i havent seen it around my familly .but ys dowry remains a challenge.and the irony is that its prevalent more among the educated gurjars
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Post by abhati on Aug 21, 2006 9:30:29 GMT -5
hmmmmm! i dont thing parda is that big a problem these days .atleast i havent seen it around my familly .but ys dowry remains a challenge.and the irony is that its prevalent more among the educated gurjars hi gaurav, perhaps the parda system is not in your family but most of the Gurjar families are still dealing with it, and on top of that they don't want to come out of it. they want to stick to it, though many of them are providing good education to their daughter but whats d use when the girls can't work, when they have to hide themselves behind the parda?? Anju Bhati |
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Post by Rajesh Jindher on Aug 28, 2006 4:48:28 GMT -5
dear gujjars
I am agree with simmi and anju that dowery system is very bad I am in favour of a marry in which no dowery system can use and parda system is become old now our community girls are educating and going abroad for education.
Regards
Rajesh Choudhary
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