anti dowry

[gauravbhati]

mark in ur entry if u promise to not to accept dowry
boht badi badi batten kar rahe hain hum log .lets see how many have guts to do this




i want this thread to be the longest one in this forum

[gauravbhati]

here comes my entry
m waitin for others

[abhati]

gauravbhati said:

here comes my entry
m waitin for others

sorry can't vote for it, as am a girl , jk

but yeah, we WILL NOT ASK for it ( on behalf of my parents /Brother), as we are AGAINST "DOWRY"!

ab (Anju Bhati)

[Rajesh Jindher]

Hi Gaurav

I am Rajesh Choudhary from Punjab (Chandigarh). I am against dowry system and I also know that dowry system is spreading day by day it is very difficult job to stop this. But if we are honestly against that sucess will be surely in our hand. I ask other members of this site to give your views reg. this.

Regards

Rajesh Choudhary

[kirpal]

Hi All !!!!!!!!!!!
I stand against it at the time of my marriage, when 90 % of my community people were not agreeing with me, in fact some of them were not beliveing it even after the wedding.
And now i don't seek it ( just flat NO Dowery in simple words) for my son's marriage, as they just approaching that age!!!!!!!!
Hearty Regards 2 every1 & sat sat Naman 2 the people contributing by any means, agains dowery system of our Gurjar Community.
kirpal Chauhan

[pooja]

hello mr dsk

well to start off i wud like to appreciate ur viewpoint which is highly ambiguous in nature.though u tried hard to be diplomat in ur views but u bowled.seriously i never get the idea behind ur writings............ whether u r anti dowry or anti girls.

some of ur views r out of my range...................here i goes......as depicted by u sometimes, girls do not focus on thier career as they think they r born to enjoy the money of their parents ................sounds disgusting.....u never know the circumstances dat forced her to do so...........these girls r THE EPITOME OF SACRIFICES.....u guys can never even imitate them.
2 pt..........shaadi to ladke ki bhi ghar wale hi karte hai ....................i don't know abt those spl cases abt which u r talking.

now let us discuss abt the case study on DOWRY done by u

1.answer me.......... why so called "successful guy" gets ready to sell him? or his success is so cheap dat anybody can bid on dat.

2.this give nd take policy.............has proved dat demand leads to supply ..............so if u want to extinguish supply u need to bury the demand for dat.

bye 4 now
critics r ur best friend.....

regards

[kirpal]

Hi All !!!!!!!!!!!!
I think dsk & pooja both r wright. same time i m very glad 2 know that our female folks coming forward to defend their point of view. this itself is big achivment i guess?
keep it up pooja & same time i m asking other female members 2 express themselves. put up ur frank opinions pls, gone r the days, when ur whole life spent around "chulha & Chakki" only. m i wright???
regds
kirpal

[gauravbhati]

sorry fr my absence fr so long frm forum.but i cant help it coz my comp is out of order and it will take me probably another week to get it fixed

@ DSK i know its nt as simple a matter which can b settled by voting .but ys what can this ensure is that it will tell us that as a responsible person how much of the credit or discredit r we ready to shoulder fr this menace.
this is beyond sanity fr me to hear someone saying that i cudnt take the family pressure so i had to consent with every one .to hell with every one if u say no ten i dont think any one can force u to go fr dowry.its frm u ;frm every single individual that this society is made of.take the initiative .ur 1st step will inspire 10's more to tread the same path.

and we have to do this ;coz i think gils can play very limited role in this