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Post by Arvind Rathaur on Feb 22, 2007 10:35:50 GMT -5
Dear gurjar friends,
I want a simple answer from you all when are we going to come out of our old and useless rituals that are of no use to some.
I want you all to go through the below story properly and help them, it is not me who require but it is the boy and girl that requires your help, not money but the corporation.
Here is a simple story, but means more to a boy and the girl who are involved in this.
A boy and girl get introduce to each other( i want tell in details how), they both are gurjars belongs to good family. I must say not hi-fi but good is the best word to describe their family status The gotra of boy is mavi while that of girl is bainsla. The father of the girl is a Dr. Boy is working in software company and girl was also working before her father cam to know about their affair.
The problem is that the father of the girl is against the love, he is saying why had they done this, this is not allowed in our society. Now both of these cannot meet each other. She is being kept under the bars at home.They both belong to a small place in merrut called "Mawana"
Now my question is that why is the father of the girl against this marriage, is this a anti caste marriage or what.
Dear friend let us come forward to help this couple, before anything wrong happens....
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kanha
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Post by kanha on Feb 27, 2007 7:01:24 GMT -5
hi arvind, i dnt think there is any kind of problem in falling in love with a person...but what i think is that u have just disclosed the one side of the coin! u did not mention what kind of rapport the two families had in past...and also you should mention if the girls gotra is not clashing with that of boys mom or vice versa...because if that is the case then i will not comment on this issue!
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Post by Arvind Rathaur on Feb 28, 2007 10:14:32 GMT -5
Dear Kanha,
The clashes are not regarding the GOTRA, both belong to different gotra. Boy's gotra is Mavi while that of Girl is Bainsla.
There is no issue regarding the gotra.............
Now what you say..
Arvind Rathaur
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Post by satchechi83 on Apr 19, 2007 6:52:31 GMT -5
dear arvind, i m with u u r totly right. why our community not favour in love marriage. my 1 friend also faceing the same problem.
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Post by Pankaj Kohli on Apr 22, 2007 22:24:54 GMT -5
no probelms at all
couple should go ahead and marry
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Post by mazhar gujjar on Apr 23, 2007 10:29:47 GMT -5
DEAR PANKAJ BHAI,
AADAB,
WHEN WILL WE HEAR A GOOD NEWS FROM YOU.
MAZHAR GUJJAR AND GURJAR FAMILY
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Post by shivdedha on Mar 23, 2010 6:42:55 GMT -5
Dear,
this is possible.jab ghotr mil hi nahi rahey toh fir shadi karney mein kay problum hai ladki key papa?
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